04.03.25

A friend of mine wrote this and since we have visited Spain several times (and will be going back), I am sharing it here.

We’ve all done it—seeing everything in one hit, cramming all the sights into a week, and returning home tired from the holiday. Does this ring a bell? That’s where slow traveling flips the page. Spain, with its lazy afternoons in the sun, long lunches, and towns that actually take the time to indulge in the moment, is the perfect place to have a go at it.

Source: Norm Bour

Now that we discuss “slow travel,” we don’t mean to proceed at a snail’s pace or steer clear of main attractions. It’s not so much about what you get to check off your list but about the manner in which you experience a destination. It’s eating in the same café for three consecutive mornings and having the barista recognize you and address you as a friend. It’s chatting with a resident in line at the bus and learning what life’s really about in that place. It’s depth rather than distance. Buses in most parts of the world are a great way to travel, and allows you to see the landscape at a more leisurely pace.

Let Time Stretch

The best part about Spain is that it forces you to slow down. Sure, there are places that seem to be going at light speed, but Spain nearly forces you to slow down. The stores close in the afternoon. The meals take hours to finish. And no one hurries to wrap up a conversation. If you’re the kind to fiddle with your watch or plan your day to the minute, Spain will teach you a new tempo—a tempo not dictated by time.

Valencia, Spain, was our first stop as nomads in 2019, and it took a while to learn how to slow to a more acceptable pace. To enjoy a pastry and coffee for two hours instead of rushing on with your day. 

Stay in one place longer. Spend a week in one small town or village and get to know the place and the people better than in a frantic two-week trip through multiple cities. Walk the same streets several times and see the same scenes in the morning light and in the golden hour.

Where To Start If You’re Used To Taking Short Trips

If you’re the type of traveler who prefers a full calendar, slowing down will be uncomfortable initially. But here’s some simple advice: don’t schedule everything in advance. Leave afternoons free. Allow your senses to be your guide—if you smell something good, go and find the source. If you hear music in the distance, go and find where it’s coming from. Spain has a way of repaying curiosity.

Get To Know Your Feet

Slow travel starts with walking. It’s where you notice the peeling paint on a door frame or the way the light falls on the olive groves. Spain’s smaller towns are perfect to walk through—small-scale, friendly, and full of unexpected pleasures. When we visited Europe we noticed that people overall were much slimmer…thanks to all the walking they do.

You’ll find locals going on a stroll in the evenings after dinner. Join them. It’s the Paseo, and it’s less about where you go and more about being. And in a country where strangers still smile and greet each other, you’ll never be alone.

Food Not Only Fuel

If you travel slowly, food becomes part of the equation. And in Spain, eating is not only about refueling—it’s about social interaction. Meals take hours to get through, and that’s not considered indulgent, only normal.

Rather than flitting from restaurant to restaurant, go to one place in your neighborhood and return to it several times. You’ll learn to recognize the regulars’ faces. People will recognize your order. You’ll be less tourist and more part of the community. One of my wife’s favorite treats is finding the perfect coffee shop with the perfect coffee and the perfect environment! As a coffee connoisseur she looks at it like a mission to be fulfilled!

Stay Where The Neighbors Live

Accommodations have much to do with your experience in a destination. Big hotels are fine, but they can insulate you from the daily life happening just beyond your doorstep. If you really want to travel slowly, think about staying in guesthouses, farm stays, or temporary apartments in residential areas.

There is a big difference between being a tourist and being a traveler. Staying at high-end resorts is a treat–but impractical for long term travel. It also becomes boring and mundane. But staying in an apartment with shops and restaurants you can walk to, to pass by the same places and wave, puts you right in the think of things.

Let Language Be Your Guide

You don’t have to be conversational. You don’t have to be fluent, either. Having a couple of words—just enough to be able to greet, thank you, and ask the way—opens so many doors.

The locals will thank you for the effort as well. Even if you have a heavy accent or misuse the verbs, the reaction will be warm and tolerant. And the more you use the language, the braver you become. That engenders connection. Connection is the essence of slow travel.

Say Yes To The Unexpected

One of the best parts about slowing down is leaving space for the unexpected to happen. When you’re not rushing from A to B, there’s room for unexpected things to occur.

An impromptu invitation to a neighborhood barbecue. A free dance class in the plaza. A lady shared a fig from her garden with you because you admired the tree. These are the types of experiences not found in guidebooks—but they’re the ones you’ll remember.

Andalusia Tours and Packages can offer real experiences that enable you to connect with the pulse of life here. It’s not about checking boxes—it’s about sharing the same air, hearing the same melodies, and witnessing the little things that bring a place to life.

Let Memories Be Your Guide

When you slow down, something curious occurs: you remember differently. Not only the highlights but also the little, seemingly insignificant details. The rough stone beneath your feet, the smell of bread from the corner bakery, the creaking shutters in the morning sunlight. You wouldn’t find those on a checklist—they’re personal and earthy and very memorable. And when you’re not in a hurry, there is time to notice them all. You have room to allow emotion to cling to place, and that is what makes traveling worthwhile in the first place.

Permit Yourself To Not See Everything

Slow traveling isn’t about missing out—it’s about tuning in and focusing on each and every moment, breathing in the atmosphere that each experience gives you, whether it is just walking down the street or jumping off a bridge.. You might leave without seeing all the famous sights, but you’ll return with much better than that: stories to share, new friendships, and a genuine feeling of a place most others just scan.

The truth is that the actual magic happens in the small, humble moments—those you would miss if you were rushing about. Let Spain show you how to slow down and appreciate them.

 

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